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Winning Ways
By MIKE SEASTROM
For
many years now, CALLERLAB has collected and
shared the stories of clubs and associations
having success in their new dancer programs and
other activities. Yes, there have always
been groups that have had better than average to
phenomenal success with their classes and events
because they found a way to do things right.
This is especially true right now.
CALLERLAB realized long ago, that every time
we turned around, we were hearing stories of big
new dancer programs, fun club outings, terrific
charity events, and clubs that were growing. We
decided to start collecting these stories, so
that other motivated groups could learn new ways
to grow and enjoy the same success. “Winning
Ways” is the collection of these stories and is
still a work in progress with new submissions
every year.
I personally believe that we would have
quadrupled this collection had we been able to
gather every success story out there. We also
realize that not everyone knows about the
“Winning Ways” project, and that it takes an
effort to write down the information. Sometimes
it takes such a big effort to be successful,
that no ones has the time to write it down.
There are also some that can’t verbalize or put
into writing what transpired.
I’ve read through these submissions, that now
total over forty, and know that it not only
takes a new idea, it takes motivated, unselfish,
passionate leaders to carry it out.
All too often, in our clubs, associations,
churches, recreation groups, and service
organizations, we see leaders and members in
conflict over petty things. We have all seen
groups that have disbanded, members that have
left, and individuals that no longer speak to
each other because of some disagreement that, in
the big scheme of things, is relatively
unimportant or just ego related.
On the other hand, we see groups that have been and
continue to be successful because of a spirit of
cooperation, a commitment to do what’s best for
the group, and an attitude that promotes fun and
friendship. The desire to include everyone in
the group is also a huge element. Having a club
that is dedicated to making everyone feel
welcome and appreciated is a big contributing
factor to initial and lasting success.
Another part of a successful project, event, or
club is having one or more excited and
passionate leaders working hard to make things
happen. I call them “spark plugs” or “go
getters”. Whatever you call them, they are an
important part of every successful club and
endeavor.
Imagine for a moment a scenario I’ve seen time
and time again. Someone in your group has an
idea that they’ve either heard about, or thought
of all by themselves. They bring up this idea
during a club or association meeting and
immediately have people that say, “Oh that won’t
work”, or “We’ve tried that before”. The
naysayers and pessimists shoot the idea down and
the club continues to struggle, without so much
as an effort or an attempt to do anything. On
the other hand, I’ve seen groups roll up their
sleeves and work together to start a something
they hope will succeed, and keep modifying it as
they go, until it does. Sometimes the project
doesn’t work the first or second time, but then
it finally builds momentum and the “sparks fly”.
CALLERLAB applauds and congratulates those
callers, dance leaders, and dancers that have
gone and continue to go the extra mile. Most of
these leaders are fun to be around, have a
wonderful positive attitude, and try to include
everyone in the club to help and join in the
festivities. Many also have this amazing knack
to get others to trust and follow them in
whatever capacity is needed. They create this
feeling of camaraderie and fellowship that is
like a magnet to new people and to veteran
members alike.
CALLERLAB invites everyone to go to their
website at: www.callerlab.org and look up, read,
download, and share each “Winning Way” with
their own group. Not all ideas are right for
everyone or every group, but sometimes just one
part of an idea can really make the difference
in something you are already doing or
contemplating. Read these ideas with an open
mind and even if one idea is really not the
right thing for your club, read them all and I
guarantee that you will find something that can
work for you and improve your club.
We’d also like to invite any group or member of a
group to put into writing what is working for
your club and share this information so that
others can prosper. Send these ideas by email to
CALLERLAB at: callerlab@aol.com or mail them to
CALLERLAB, International Association of Square
Dance Callers, 200 SW 30th Street, Suite 104,
Topeka, KS 66611
Most of us know, in our hearts, that this activity is
a terrific recreation and one of the best-kept
secrets around. It’s healthy, keeps us thinking,
gets us out from in front of our television sets
and computers, and allows us to experience the
joy of moving to music. Dancing gets our blood
moving, keeps us young and active, and provides
us a way to meet and enjoy the company of some
of the finest people around. It’s an activity
that all of us would like to pass on to future
generations and share with our friends,
neighbors, co-workers, and family members.
Let’s work together to share our ideas,
celebrate each other’s success, and motivate
some that need a little encouragement to try and
to learn something new.
CALLERLAB is dedicated to serving square dancing
and its associated dance forms by providing a
full time staff and an annual convention. By
fostering communication, cooperation and
providing educational opportunities, we can all
share in some of the magic and success that has
always been (and continues to be), enjoyed by
many of our groups in almost every corner of the
world.
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